[i]hiya, great to be here. new to forum, recommended by a friend! cheers 't'!
anyway. i am tj (short for tequilla-jack). i am a mum of one daughter who is 11 going on 41, full of hormones and attitude most of the time now. we have good days and extremely bad days.
i am married too. i am my hubby's full time carer, due to his mobility problems.(unstable diabetes mistreated for over 17 years will do that to ya!)
anyway, our daughter was born 3weeks prem due to pre-eclampsia and weighed in at 4lb6oz. (which is 1.995 for those who prefer kg, if you remove the decimal point you get the year she was born too. spooky huh?)
anyway, 'rat' as ahe has been since she was a bump, spent 17 days in neonatal. heartbreaking.
so although it was a few years ago now, i have had all sorts of ups and downs of experience that i am willing to share if it helps anyone out there!
catch ya all soon.